If you've reached your limit and want to get revenge on your husband, there are ways to make him suffer.

Destroying something valuable to him, like a prized possession or important documents, will really hurt him. Forcing him to deal with the aftermath will cause stress and inconvenience.

Embarrassing him in front of others by sharing personal secrets or mistakes will damage his self-esteem and reputation. He'll feel shame whenever he faces those people.

Stopping contact and ignoring him is a simple way to make him feel unimportant and rejected.

Until he learns to appreciate you more, these actions will show him he can't treat you poorly with no consequences.

... That's legitimately disturbing.