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0 pointsyieldcrv1y ago0 comments

Women complain about the poor quality of conversations they encounter

We should do a study on that itself, because I think guys are having quality conversations, pulling teeth with an entitled beautiful woman they are prioritizing, and everyone else is waiting for the guy to lead and there is no bandwidth left! so guys spread themselves too thin to procedurally lead every new conversation after accumulating matches

while girls are particular on the matches

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rqtwteye1y ago

“ Women complain about the poor quality of conversations they encounter”

From my experience in online dating there are a lot of women who expect the guy to do everything. He needs to approach and then also carry the conversation. Out of maybe 10 initial messages I received from women there was maybe 1 that was more than “Hi”.

yieldcrvOP1y ago

yeah, old Bumble never worked for me. I was attractive enough to be matched with but not prioritized for women to start the conversation.

It was very validating to know that Bumble dropped their one unique value add because women were afraid to approach and werent doing it enough

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