Also, wouldn't it be easier for stateful firewalls to block simultaneous TCP open (intentionally or not)? With UDP, the sender's firewall must create a connection as soon as it sends off the first packet, even if that packet bounces off the other firewall: the timing doesn't have to be particularly tight. But with TCP, the firewall might plausibly wait until the handshake is complete before allowing incoming packets, and it might only allow the 3-way SYN/SYN-ACK/ACK instead of the simultaneous SYN/SYN/ACK/ACK.