I feel the pain, I've started a startup on Scala (and some years later successfully sold it), but compilation speed and 20 lines type constraint errors where my biggest problems (but I never forget that it enabled us to scale the company and sell it :-) - but if a programming language spawns consulting companies that only help with speeding up compile times, that is a bad sign.
Though when working on a 2M+ LOC Java project 15 years ago, we also spent a lot of money on very fast RAID hard drives in developer machines to speed up compilation. JRebel was a huge relief back then.