I get the logic and I get where you come from.
I come from a place where of all "information sources" scholar.google.com is still one of the slightly more trustworthy ones. the review process has its quirks, but it's better than no peer review at all.
in that world, where academic peer reviews appears to be a last "bastion" of reliability, a statement like the one that started this thread is something I feel the urge to "nib the bud".
if we were in a room I'd suggest we have beer of sorts and a good laugh about the irony of this thread.
I think you need to be careful to not initiate the very rhetoric game you want to fight. if your top level statement had been your anecdata, and maybe a question about the pervasiveness of this phenomenon and if there is nuance? like, if the journal asks an expert in the field about a review and they do know relevant papers, maybe indeed some of their own, a citation request may be just fine?
I'd said nothing. just nothing.
but the thread starter overgeneralized the missing trustworthiness of the scientific peer process as a whole.
and there I dared to ask: is that really so? should we stop trusting published science, in general, and "do our own research" ;-)
do you see, where I come from? do you see the irony of this thread?
and can we have a figurative beer?