I was once on a volunteer project, clearing destroyed buildings after a disaster. One day after work, the entire group was going over the work all the sub-groups had done that day, and an upper-middle-aged man, who had been out clearing the crumbled remnants of a schoolhouse, was indignant because of the perceived lack of respect shown by the head of the school, who showed up to see what was being done but had failed to personally thank the group (him really) for their efforts. Another guy stood up and countered him that they didn't decide to volunteer so that they could collect thank yous and bask in signs of appreciation - that they didn't know how much our how little their efforts meant at the moment to the people they were doing it for - clearing away the pieces of a fallen building, perhaps one that took lives with it, is just completing the process of destruction after all, so seeing it being done might stir feelings of revisiting the horrors of the devastation. That was the end of the 'thank you' crap.

All that's to say, not everyone values their labor the same way you do or feels the need for it to be recognized as you do. Not everyone has the same relationship with money (as a concept and reality) as you do. These are not things of right and wrong.

I doubt there would be many people who would claim the open source ecosystem is perfect, but such is a barely managed, libre system. You don't have to make demands of it; if you are unable to embrace it, you are also completely free to not.