This is true for us, but is also anthropocentric. We can't assume that everyone would have this problem.
Technological change is probably a sigmoid like most things. There could be people out there who have already won physics, figured out the entire unified theory of how everything works, and have developed most of the core technological stuff they ever will. At that point they might calm back down and become more stable over long periods of time. These are the kinds of civilizations that would send slow probes or one-way colony ships out and would be willing and able to wait.
It's very hard to think about potential aliens without dragging in anthropocentric or even recent-history-centric assumptions.