> Snapchat has this super annoying 'streaks' and the more friends you have the more streaks you have to keep alive, so you have to send like 400 messages per day.. its non stop.

I had no idea. That sounds insane. Can that "feature" be disabled?

> I teach her that there are 100_000 developers and psychologists and product owners and etc, that they go to work every single day thinking how to extract the most value out of her attention, and she has to constantly be aware of what is the "algorithm" making her do.

It's great that you make her aware of it. And still, it sounds like an horribly unfair fight.