> If you don't send them fast to your customer and your customer gets compromised, your reputation gets hit.
> If you send them fast, this BSOD happened.
> It's more like damn if you do, damn if you don't.
What about notifications? If someone has an update policy that disable auto-updates to a critical piece of infrastructure, you can still let him know that there's a critical update is available. Now, he can do follow his own checklist in order to ensure everything goes well.