That's fair, thanks!
There's an Elmish FuncUI extension for Avalonia that lets you write applications in Elm style: https://github.com/fsprojects/Avalonia.FuncUI/tree/master/sr...
(a caveat applies that it is very niche compared to regular Avalonia let alone WinForms or WPF, so the options for idiomatic graphing ui controls might be scarce)