And then (and I'll admit a cynicism here, from having seen the best of the best to the worst of the worst) retirement homes (ironically often owned by Boomers) chronically underpay their employees so many of the facilities I've seen in my time as a paramedic, I wouldn't send my worst enemy to. There is distinctly a segment of that populace who have on one hand, pissed off their children sufficiently that they don't want them living with the family in retirement, and on the other have studiously applied the "fuck you, got mine" mentality throughout their life such that their retirement or nursing home options are little better than "fade away just on the right side of the line of neglect".