Sorry about that other poster, I appreciate your answer to my question. Thinking it's a lot for an individual household to have to identify and do this much paperwork for childcare is an entirely reasonable response. As is doing taxes in the US in general... it can be both obnoxiously overboard and also be well intended.
I did not read anything in your post that suggested you resented the babysitter or having to pay money to do it properly.
I read the exact opposite, that more people would if the process were not so burdensom of people who obviously have a child and so presumably not a ton of time for paperwork.
After all, you did it properly... what's to get angry about other than the topic of the original article, that tax paperwork is overboard?