You're playing off a false dichotomy. Furniture doesn't have to look bad to be of quality.
GP said
> I think the problem I've noticed is - the furniture that is built to last very frequently fails the partner test - "that looks like old fart stuff".
This is a problem of taste alignment, not of preference. A person having a taste for the generally poor quality well marketed bit of goods available.
So, like I said. If one develops a taste for a certain type of trendy furniture that is poorly made, it's a personal limitation.