I had for years a fantastic job in one of the inner engineering groups at Apple, loved it, loved the coworkers, the culture, and earned and saved very well, which is the point in mentioning this. but I quit to move far away eventually because I obstinately refused to pay exorbitant real estate prices to get a non shitty home.

Sadly I could understand how folks from outside the US have less perspective on what a shitty ripoff it is, but if you're from a well off suburbia in different parts of the US, it was clearly nonsense to buy there.