var data1 = service1.GetData();
var data2 = service2.GetAnotherData();
var aggregate1 = Aggregate(await data1);
var result = Handle(await aggregate1, await data2);
No need to deal with writing three lines per each operation to just schedule it in a "fork" way like in Java. In "colorless" (which is always a lie) async runtimes you have to go out of your way to make it concurrent. Perhaps Erlang process isn't coarse grained abstraction as you say, but there are multiple aspects that make Erlang problematic. And again, I will not tire of repeating it - the article about function coloring is actively harmful to the industry and is leading hundreds of developers with concurrency knowledge gaps assume that they need to avoid Task/Future-based code like plague when it is actually the best abstraction we have today for massively concurrent processes (if it was badly designed in whatever language of your choice - sorry).In addition, because Task<T> is a thread-safe object in C#, you can apply all kinds of transformations and data chaining with LINQ on collections/sequences of those, or even together with parallel LINQ and tasks at the same time. Your simple average code will easily scale to all CPU cores if it does not have interdependencies/contention (a lot of LOB codebases don't, it's all straight line up to a DB or a third-party call(s)).
And last but not least, all BEAM-based languages are comparatively slow (hard performance ceiling is always imposed if you don't pay with static typing and full JIT/AOT) and unfortunately suffer from high heap footprint, even compared to the more throughput-focused GC modes in .NET and GC implementations in JVM. But no, developers are insistent on parroting quotes said 10 to 15 years ago instead of at least attempting to assess technologies on their merits of today.