I think you're not talking about the same thing. What I am saying is that if you depend only on Apple and their framework, then you have all the improvements as soon as they exist and you don't really have the risk that Apple stops developing iOS (or if they do, then iOS is most likely dead).
If you depend on, say, Qt-for-iOS, then you need Qt to integrate the new features (with more or less success, taking more or less time), and you have a much higher chance that Qt will stop working on iOS some day (or that some important feature never reaches Qt, or that it is super painful to use with iOS).
Removing third party dependencies reduces your risk.