> I am not even sure using a large EV is better than a small ICE once you take into account other forms of pollution, road damage, congestion
Where did I mention large EV? I'm mentioning a normal EV and comparing that to an equally sized ICE. Why would anyone compare a large EV with a small ICE? It's a strange and dishonest comparison.
Large cars are not significantly longer (they are higher and fatter) and congestions does not occur due to this car size. Cars need to keep a large distance between each other for safety. Even a small ICE car will very quickly emit more than the production of an average EV car ever could.
In a city there is the added benefit that EVs are silent and do not emit locally which matters.