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Negative mindset

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xchip2y ago

That great, at least it is a blocker that depends on you and that you can control.

sixothree2y ago

Please though, we shouldn't pretend there aren't things we cannot fix that prevent us from not being lonely.

admissionsguyOP2y ago

This sentence has too many negations even for me.

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xchip2y ago

but surely that negative mindset is there for a good reason, it must give you something you value, otherwise you wouldn't have developed this mechanism

ensocode2y ago

good point. if you are successful it might be the feeling that people tend to always want to get something out of you which might be exhausting and a good reason to hide. Enjoy that!

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xchip2y ago

That great, at least it is a blocker that depends on you and that you can control.

sixothree2y ago

Please though, we shouldn't pretend there aren't things we cannot fix that prevent us from not being lonely.

admissionsguyOP2y ago

This sentence has too many negations even for me.

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xchip2y ago

but surely that negative mindset is there for a good reason, it must give you something you value, otherwise you wouldn't have developed this mechanism

ensocode2y ago

good point. if you are successful it might be the feeling that people tend to always want to get something out of you which might be exhausting and a good reason to hide. Enjoy that!

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