Then you seem to think that everyone else should accept and agree with your judgement.
Because if people do not agree with your judgement, then everything is ultimately arbitrary and if fully realized, would annihilate society.
Now I can tell you that I do not care about how you judge a person. I will make up my own mind. So there you are, by your own definition society is annihilated.
Yet here we still are.
[You picked some bad examples on which to argue your point. You should though spend time to figure out good examples]