Close family is at risk of severe illness or death from COVID. We provide for a small child. We do not have much margin.
I’d like to ask you to imagine the social repercussions of masking. It’s hard. I do not want to be weird. I do not want to be an outcast, practically speaking. I don’t want to wear a mask.
I just don’t have any margin in the other direction.
Also:
What is it about a hospital setting that makes a given type of mask more effective?
Answer: Nothing.
Hospitals are places where it’s easier to run a trial, and where it’s harder to avoid infection.
Face-fitting masks do not require glue. Fitting a mask isn’t that hard.
Cloth masks don’t work and never did.
The objective is to not die or be maimed by a virulent pathogen, or rather: to have the option. Clarity on effective means for those who want it. I want effective means because I need them. The objective is not social classification of mask wearers or categorization of discussion types or labeling people as cartoons.
The objective is clear information as input into serious personal decision-making. The guy on the subway is not in scope.
In terms of being weird: there are enough people wearing masks and most people literally care more about what they're going to have for dinner than whether or not you're wearing a mask. If a mask helps your family, don't worry about the epsilon weird aspect (as I'm sure you have already calculated).
I think I can also pretty decisively say that hospital purchasing optimizations give face-fitting masks a bad rap. The FFP2 masks that hospital staff wear here are cheap and very uncomfortable. This bleeds into society as a negative view.
There’s also another aspect: The difference between a N95/FFP2/whatever mask as part of the industrial production of a verifiable sanitization chain in a hospital on one hand, and on the other as a piece of fabric that’s ludicrously effective at stripping infectious particles from the air.
There are many more edge cases in a hospital, and many more pathogens. In private life – mine at least – it’s only really COVID that matters. In that case a mask can be reused again and again and it’s OK to touch it, basically.
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Re. being weird:
I don’t mind.
The weirdness hurts the family. There’s a big, big gap of dissonance between what we need to do and what public health authorities say. This includes flat out demonstrably wrong statements about transmission where I live. This dissonance makes the family weird, and it has caused severe social isolation of a mother with a young child.
I want to assure the reader that we don’t ask for much. We are very, very polite. We don’t demand anything, we are not difficult.
It’s purely the astounding dissonance. People don’t know what to do and just fade away.
It’s a very painful way to be weird. You feel it in your bones and your soul how unnatural it is.
