Ask HN: Requests made to IA, command or cordial question?

Today while doing certain operations with one of the modern AIs, I realized that I was posing my requests as if there was a real person on the other side, unconsciously.

I wondered how many like me unintentionally, partly because of temperament and character, partly without thinking about it, pose in a kind way in the requests they make to AIs instead of simply imposing the direct command.

Is there any study in this regard, on how we position ourselves in relation to the AIs we use every day?