You forget that the people who can afford to have a place to rent, usually are not the majority of the population of the place where the rental is located.
I live in a city that was very welcoming to tourists before airbnb, and where locals are now starting to behave in a hostile way towards non-locals, due to the affordability crisis (myself included, I had a 70%+ rent increase this month).
You can try to make yourself feel better by saying you're not the problem, but you are, and locals everywhere are starting to hate people like you.
My advice, unsolicited as it might be, is to relocate yourself to near where you're working for, as it's the economy for which you are being paid, and continue building great software, but with the world (and not yourself) in mind.
Tourism is providing these local economies with money. Shoo-ing away the tourists is not the answer. They are providing significant money into some very bad economies, and in some cases such as resorts, hiring locals and paying them decent wages (I see this in Indonesia). I assure you suburban US does not need your money.
Tourism provides money to these local economies, true. But what airbnb, and digital nomads, did was to subvert these local economies to depend on the to survive, turning whole cities (some of which are world heritage sites) into amusement rides for tourists.
Have you ever stopped to think what is life like for the locals who work in the resorts (to take your example), and can't afford to live nowhere near their workplace, having to commute for over an hour (in the best case scenarios) only to smile at tourists that become upset because they can't speak their language?
It's lovely to say that businesses should pay locals a decent wage, but that very rarely happens, the "decent" is a very debatable number.
And anyway, no one in the world needs your suburban US money, please keep it to yourself and your suburban US economy.
