that's because i have always only been concerned about active discrimination. and your statement is too generic to exclude that. let me repeat what i said:
innocent until proven guilty should apply to every interaction we have with any human being
as individuals we need to be careful to not allow prejudice to control our actions
if you see red flags you should evaluate them and make sure they are not just prejudice
you seem to be claiming that the right to free association should allow people to remain to be racist. no, it shouldn't.
i not twisting anything, especially not since this thread started with your criticism of my first statement, and this whole argument looks like you seemingly trying to use the right of free association to excuse people being racist.
what if a person was asking for help? but they couldn't because you turned away? can you see how an action that according to you is just your expression of free association turns into active discrimination?