https://getborderless.com/ would be one alternative I can think of that's in the same space as Wise.
But they too will behave in the same way at some point, due to compliance requirements. Banks and fintech companies need to know 1. who you are 2. that your income is from legit sources.
For #2, ask your customers (who paid you recently) to give you a copy of the banking app records of those payments, where the last 4 digits of the payer's bank account can be seen. Wise can then cross-reference those against what they see on their end, at which point they can declare your source of income verified. (I had to learn this the hard way myself.) Very importantly, those payment records have to be from the banking app that the accounts payable team is using, not Ripple or any internal payroll system.