It's been a while since I set it up, but iirc I ended up going with
https://github.com/wangyu-/UDPspeederPretty sure I used the suggested config and it's been working flawlessly in the background.
Or something like that. With wireguard, it's just a matter of pointing the config at the local socket for the fec tunnel (or any other type of tunnel, there was a dicussion about making it look like TCP http traffic the other day), so it's pretty much plug and play.