> > The author doesn't say "not wanting to have sex with me is problematic", they say "not wanting to date someone based on their ethnicity is a political stance and it's problematic if it's the only factor in that decision".
> No, that still isn't problematic. It's someone's right to choose who they have sex with. Only a rapist denies that.
Fine, I'll get down to your level.
You think it's not problematic for people not to date black women because they are black. Only racists agree with that.
> > ELI5: it's problematic as a whole, for the community and society, when people decide not to mix, to mingle based on ethnicity.
> Not mingle. Sex. That's different.
> Some people are really eager to defend rape apologia and I have to wonder why.
So far you have accused a lot of people of defending rape apologia without providing any explanations as to why the text would suggest that. When given comments explaining why the text, the blog author or the original essays author isn't promoting rape you get back to "you are all defending rape apologia".
That's enough. Good luck.
