I’ve met quite a few “unlucky” people in my life and what nearly all of them had in common was the inability to connect their actions and inactions to consequences. They were blindsided by predictable outcomes over, and over, and over again. Eventually the people who could actually help you get tired of your drama and move on, and then you’re left in an echo chamber where your narrative makes sense.
I’ve spent a lot of time on this job thinking about the thoughts and plans of the people who have left. If our vertical were more compelling I believe we could make a better product with the people who have left than with the people who stayed. Even considering the lack of depth in domain knowledge. There’s a lot of things that don’t change because they were the right thing to do ten years ago. That’s an explanation for how we arrived here, not a reason to stay.