You don't need to hide the entire page until fully rendered. You inline in the head just the bits of CSS/JS you need and set styles from there, so if you are in dark mode, it's set to dark before anything has rendered, without needing to block a huge amount of time. You can see how it works on my site https://gwern.net/ - set dark mode in the toggle (assuming it is not your system setting already), and refresh or force-refresh; note that there is no flash of white nor is the page hidden until rendering is fully finished.

As long as you have a good reason for your decision. Some things you just have to make tradeoffs and can’t please everyone. Enter key to submit or enter key for newline in a chat context? You’ll go crazy trying to solve for all - sometimes it is just not possible