Also, it brings nothing of value to the table, but requires a lot of dance around it to keep it going. I.e. if you are a decent DBA, you don't have a problem setting up a node to run your database of choice, you would be probably opposed to using pre-packaged Docker images anyways.
Also, Kubernetes sucks at managing storage... basically, it doesn't offer anything that'd be useful to a DBA. Things that might be useful come as CSI... and, obviously, it's better / easier to not use a CSI, but to interface directly with the storage you want instead.
That's not to say that storage products don't offer these CSI... so, a legitimate question would be why would anyone do that? -- and the answer is -- not because it's useful, but because a lot of people think they need / want it. Instead of fighting stupidity, why not make an extra buck?
If I run a db workload in K8s, it’s a tiny fraction of the operational overhead, and not a massively noticeable performance loss.
I would absolutely love a way to deploy and manage db’s as easily as K8s with fewer of the quite significant issues that have mentioned, so if you know of something that is better behaved around singular workloads, but keeps the simple deploys, the resiliency, the ease of networking and config deployments, the ease of monitoring, etc, I am all ears.
It's simple, until you hit a problem. And then it becomes a lot worse than if you had never touched it. You are now in the stage of a person who'd never made backups and never had a failure that required them to restore from backups, and you are wondering why would anyone do it. Adverse events are rare, and you may go like this for years, or, perhaps the rest of your life... unfortunately, your experience will not translate into a general advice.
But, again, you just might be in the camp where performance doesn't matter. Nor does uptime matter, nor does your data have very high value... and in that case it's OK to use tools that don't offer any of that, and save you some time. But, you cannot advise others based on that perspective. Or, at least, not w/o mentioning the downsides.
I am not sure what complexity Kubernetes adds in this situation. Anything Kubernetes can do to you, your cloud provider (or a poorly aimed fire extinguisher) can do to you. You have to be ready for a disaster no matter the platform.
Wrong. I wouldn't use kubelet at all. Kubernetes and good performance are not compatible. The goal of Kubernetes is to make it easier to deploy Web sites. Web is a very popular technology, so Kubernetes was adopted in many places where it's irrelevant / harmful because Web developers are plentiful and will help to power through the nonsense of this program. It's there because it makes trivial things even easier for less qualified personnel. It's not meant as a way to make things go faster, or to use less memory, or to use less persistent storage, or less network etc... it's the wheelchair of ops, not a highly-optimized professional-grade equipment.