No, they totally succeeded because the used php. I think zuckerberg said it himself that php allowed them to add new features easily. I think he mentioned that it was easy for new people to pick it up. I’m pretty sure Facebook wouldn’t exist today if it had been written in the more corporate/esoteric languages available at the time.

Its ease of use allowed him to launch the site from his dorm room. Iirc, YouTube was also written in php (it had .php urls), before google bought it and rewrote it using python, so you could probably thank php for that site too.