What does typing on a computer keyboard have to do with where you put your genitals? No one cares and most importantly, no one should care. Keep your sexual and romantic life to yourself in a programming community.
>There are going to be struggles and clashes as members of different classes assert their grievances and call each other out.
Thats a bad thing that must be nipped in the bud.
>In short, this kind of "drama" is a growing pain of open source becoming a real movement that invites and incorporates diverse voices.
More like its death convulsions.