I don't know what games you're playing but my experience pretty much across the board with the switch is "frustratingly long" loading times. Metroid dread is one of the more recent games I played and the loading screens are painful. Especially compared to a PS5. Check out something like Spiderman for how good it can be.
> And tbh, I didn’t see a lot of difference in terms of graphics.
Then you're not the target audience. Look at TOTK beside Ratchet and Clank on PS5. The difference is night and day.