If you absolutely must then build it separately and link (or use) that exactly like blender does with their binaries. Campbell (one of the core blender devs) used to love to bump the python version as soon as it was released and if you wanted to do any dev work you’d have to run another python environment until the distro version caught up. Being as I liked to use the fedora libs as a sort of sanity check this was a bit of a hassle to say the least.
