RethinkDB user here. I've been running it in production for the last 8 years or so. It works. It doesn't lose data. It doesn't corrupt data (like most distributed databases do, read the Jepsen reports).

I am worried about it being unmaintained. I do have some issues that are more smells than anything else — like things becoming slower after an uptime of around three weeks (I now reboot my systems every 14 days). I could also do with improved performance.

I'm disappointed that the Winds of Internet Fashion haven't been kind to RethinkDB. It was always a much better proposition that, say, MongoDB, but got less publicity and sort of became marginalized. I guess correct and working are not that important.

I'm slowly rebuilding my application to use FoundationDB. This lets me implement changefeeds, is a correct distributed database with fantastic guarantees (you get strict serializability in a fully distributed db!), and lets me avoid the unneeded serialization to/from JSON as a transport format.

We've never had any issue with it on a typical three-node install in Kubernetes. It requires essentially no ongoing management. That said, it can't be ignored that the company went under and now it's in community maintenance mode. If you don't have a specific good use for Rethink's changefeed functionality, which sets it apart from the alternatives, I'm not sure I could recommend it for new development. We've chosen not to rip it out, but we're not developing new things on it.