If you (more commonly) run on a different host, you’re looking more at 20x-50x and this is assuming you’re in the same region.
To even get close to the SQLite level of throughput you’d have to stagger/pipeline your requests over a number of concurrent connections (proportional to the earlier x).
You’ll eventually succeed at doing just that, with multiple machines. Congratulations, but now you have to also consider the N+1 problem, even for small Ns. In SQLite, you can afford much more back-and-forth with simple queries.