I personally do mind very much. Just the differences in startup times between apt and snap applications are huge and I would absolutely despise working with such a sluggish system. I would rather build everything myself from source if forced to.
With maintainers in the loop, there is at least one more person that can notice something is fishy. Not to mention there is usually so time before packages are updated, so there is more time to notice an attack.
Also one more person who can inject malware or break something. How did that Debian keygen issue happen again? Oh right.
The people on the openssl mailing list said it was fine. That's how it happened.
First of all, there is no such thing as an average user. Also, it is not relevant to the discussion. I care about what I want in a system, not what some imaginary users want.
Now, we could stop there but I will play: Electron solves a real problem for developers. Writing cross-platform GUI apps is a real pain. Yes, there are native solution but ensuring the user has the exact same experience on every platform tends to be orders of magnitude more costly compare to web based solutions. (That or they are exotic options like Lazarus with Free Pascal that have a much lower Developer pool.) Many apps wouldn't even have Linux ports if they were not written on Electron.
Now, why do users accept them? Why are they not out-competed by native solution? Oh, honey. Why do I have Microsoft Teams installed? Because I like it? Hell, no! Because I need it for work. Why do I have the Discord Client? Because it is great? Nah, I long for good old IRC but Discord it there the people currently are. Did I think the Epic Games launcher is such an great app? Nah, they bought me with offering free games.
Users tolerate shitty software for many reasons, mostly because they have to. It does not follow from that, that they don't mind software being shitty.
In which case I hope you are prepared for software to get many times worse, because the software industry doesn't give a tuppeny fuck what you want in a system, they care what sells to the lowest common denominator. And that means slow, bloated electron web sites shoehorned into the desktop because the pool of mediocre JavaScript developers that can extrude a minimum viable product is huge compared to the pool of native developers of any language.
And it will continue this way for as long as it's accepted. So, forever basically, because the average user you claim doesn't exist will put up with anything placed in front of them without significant enough complaint to impact profits.
You have apparently no idea how much it costs to recompile everything, every single time that openssl fixes a bug.
I much prefer the f-droid model, of having curated repositories to keep crap outside.
Also, I can't understand why people on the internet think that upstream developers are omniscient. They make lots of mistakes and errors. Distribute maintainers fix a lot of things, and send the fixes to the authors.
Bugs should be fixed upstream, not kept in distro specific silos. There's no reason why only a packager can fix some upstream issues or become a contributor. On the contrary shipping your app as a universal tech like flatpak means Redhat, Debian, Arch or any other user can use it, develop for it, and send fixes upstream.
This is mostly a Debian issue fwiw. Debian is literally notable because they're obsessed with making sure that any package in their repositories is kept with the same "API"[0], no matter how old the software is. The result is that Debian packages can end up hugely derivative compared to the equivalent of upstream and other distros, but it's usually also because the software in question is half a decade old.
With other distros, packaging changes to upstream usually just reflect the preference to match a certain style of configuration (to pull another example from Debian: nginx ships with sites-{enabled,available} folders and is configured to load from sites-enabled by default. This is to match the same configuration style that's used for apache2 and that it's associated tools assume you configure apache2 with, even though nginx just uses a conf.d folder and has no extra tools to facilitate anything fancy with sites-{enabled,available}).
The extreme end is nix, which actively requires you to have the upstream written with nix in mind because nix will basically demand you configure the source code in ways to accommodate for it.
[0]: This includes actual software-intended interfaces and the ones hacked together by users by ie. reading out logfiles.
I'm pretty sure this isn't true.
What does upstream emacs have to do for Nix to provide https://github.com/NixOS/nixpkgs/blob/nixos-22.11/pkgs/appli...
I will agree though that applications which have their own update mechanism or do other things that make reproducibility harder are much more difficult to create a Nix expression for.
No other desktop OS has done it like Linux and for good reason. People have been citing this as a reason they don't want to use Linux as a desktop for decades to mostly deaf ears, who then turn around and wonder loudly why no one wants to use their OS. Hell, even Linus Torvalds himself complained about it.
For decades, Linux package managers have been the killer app for Linux. They made installing and updating every single one of your applications trivial. You didn't google for sketchy download sites and unsigned exe's. You didn't have to fight the system to cleanly uninstall things. Even release upgrades were the smoothest thing ever. In 25 years, I've never had a Debian release upgrade go wrong.
Anyone bitching about package managers as user hostile is a flat out idiot.
If a package is not in the repo? Sorry, you have to compile from source. Want a newer version? Compile from source and hope that the build environment dependencies are in the repo. Want an older version for some reason? Break out docker or KVM so you don't break your system.
None of this is fundamental to the model, that much is true, but in practice it is how all Linux distributions using a package manager/repo model without things like Snap, AppImage, and Flatpak work.
Here's the best part though: Even with Flatpaks and AppImage you can still use a repo! In fact Fedora Silverblue, which uses an immutable base system and installs everything through Flatpak and Toolbox, uses a Fedora controlled Flatpak repo by default.
[0] http://saimei.ftp.acc.umu.se/pub/debian-meetings/2014/debcon...
If you want the dystopian hellhole you seemingly long for, just use Android and enjoy the ad-infested crapware? No reason to moan about things you seemingly don't understand.