Humans are trained on orders of magnitude more multimodal data over their lifetimes. Also, humans are not borne as an unbiased model, billions of years of evolution have crafted many implicit biases into our cognition (like a propensity to language, facial recognition, etc.). All machine learning models are true blank slates, so it takes a lot more data just to build up to the same starting point as a newborn human.

All that's to say that you have no basis upon which to claim that AI learning is NOT similar to how humans do it, or that human intelligence "goes way beyond hat", it's just that humans have a head start and a lot more data to work with.