It is likely you just didn't realize how much margin these providers have and did not negotiate enough. How else do you think cloud providers are able to afford the rates they are giving? The way you describe it, places like Coreweave are operating as a charity. That isn't true - they just got better prices than you.
Our inference setup is 7 figures, has been running for a while (with new servers purchased frequently along the way) and there have been no issues - the cards, CPU, RAM, are all top of the line server hardware.
1. For inference (which is 80%+ of our need) our utilization is 100% 24/7/365. For stuff that is variable (like training) we often do use cloud - as I mentioned we do both.
2. I am the CEO so I am not sure who I'm asking for budget?
3. At this point we would have paid more for cloud than what we spent purchasing our own hardware. There is nothing stopping us from getting new hardware or cloud with newer cards while still getting to own our current hardware. In fact since our costs over the last year were lower due to us buying our own hardware it is actually easier for us to afford newer cards.