>I don't really understand the intensity of folks that insist on open source meaning something very narrow and specific but different strokes.
Words have defined meanings and are important for conveying information and communicating. If you just make up definitions to commonly understood terms, it leads to confusion.
>To me something is open source if ...
So you took a precisely defined phrase[1] that many people put a lot of thought and negotiation into (working with various stakeholders), has been in wide use for decades by thousands of companies and organizations, and hundreds of thousands (or millions) of developers, threw that definition out, and created your own definition because of reasons - how does help anything?
>This is going to sound stupid because I didn't put any real thought into it
Hmmm.
[1] https://opensource.org/osd