A beautiful sentiment. The world would be a better place were everyone to think this way.
Something I found particularly funny about the process was that the registry here (https://strengthtogive.org.au/register/) offers you the opportunity to get a cheek-swab registration kit mailed to you
…only to tell you on the next page that they have huge demand for the kits but the state/federal government haven’t approved their use :(
About 2 years ago my dad was diagnosed with ALS, a particularly aggressive form of Leukemia. About 30-40% of patients die within a year (at least based on the research my dad did) if they don't get a stem cell transplant. Thankfully my Dad had two brothers that were perfect matches. The one who ended up coming down was extremely trypanophobic, it wasn't a pleasant experience for him either, but two years later and my Dad's still kicking.
Hopefully whoever gets your cells has just as much luck. Either way they're lucky to have you!
I can absolutely recommend everyone to register as a stem cell donor. Thanks to these random matches my father lives on.
As a random fun fact: he got to write one letter to the donor, who got to write one letter back. You never get their contact details, and don't even know in which country they live. Needless to say, tears were shed over the short letter conversation back and forth.
I'm already stock-piling the tears.
Or if you're already a blood donor you can join the British Bone Marrow Registry at your next donation - https://www.bbmr.co.uk/joining-the-register/
Registered this morning, was very easy.
It's funny how similar the author's initial situation was to mine - I was caught up in life, just accepted a new job, was getting married in a few months, and I get this call from an organization letting me know I was a bone marrow match for a patient. I totally forgot I registered years earlier after a blood drive in college and thought it was a scam, but eventually remembered signing up.
I'm irrationally afraid of anesthesia so when I found out that stem cell donation for adult patients is done through apheresis I was ecstatic and ready to go. There is a lot of process to go through before being confirmed as a match, a lot of doctor visits and blood work. When it was determined I was a good match for the patient, they scheduled the filgrastim injections and the donation day.
Filgrastim messed me up a bit. I had a lot of bone pain and headaches for a few days and the blood work before and after injections showed an ~8x increase in my white blood cell count (which is the goal - the stuff definitely works). My donation experience was much easier than the author's, I was on the apheresis machine for about 3.5 hours and was finished in one session.
The following year I hosted a donor registration drive at my place of work and helped 100 or so people sign up. I don't know if any of them ever matched with anybody - the chances of matching are really slim. It's super critical to register a large number of people to try to improve matching donors with patients.
Donating is probably the most significant thing I've done for another person, yet one of the simplest things for me. The doctors and organization are apologetic for all the inconvenience to me, but they're helping me save somebody's life and I get a full physical workup out of it. The pre-donation blood work and doctor visits were like the most comprehensive health check up I've ever had and it was all free.
I got a letter from my patient a few months after the donation. I cherish that experience and would do it again in a heartbeat. I never got to meet my patient, as some donors do. I hope they're still doing well.
We are so grateful that someone took the time to sign up and then to donate.
Once again, thanks for sharing this story. I hope it inspires others to donate.