Would you chastise someone for designing an API with with methods like "Map.get(key)" and "Map.put(key, val)" because nothing is physically taken or put back?
I'm using words which communicate high-level concepts which, yes, I believe map very well to what's happening inside the AI.
The AI doesn't "see" the spelling of words, because that INFORMATION IS NEVER SENT TO IT. So when I say it doesn't "see" it, that you can take literally, no matter what happens inside the AI.
Another thing I'll ask you to consider is this: why do you want to deconstruct every element of operation in AI but not do the same for your or my brain? We also think through a giant messy network of weighed connections. We're not special. We really want to be, but we're not.
I don't mind humanizing AI, in fact I do it on purpose, simply because I believe neural networks are alike, and all I've read about natural and artificial intelligence seems to support that.