Do you realize that if you started taking shots at perceived threats from your window, because "fuck everyone and everything," society would firebomb your home and thus you would have brought harm to you
and your family?
Like, taking your supposedly family-first selfishness to its natural conclusion here. Keep prioritizing family above all else, and then apply some rationality and logic: Why do you think your family can exist in a vacuum? What philosophy are you holding that makes you believe that extending Pure Selfishness to include a couple more people thus makes it work?
Like... you're saying "judge all you want" but we're here discussing ethics so... are you saying all families should operate on this ethical principal? What do you think society would look like then? Do you understand what you could justify under this ethical system? Literally anything lmao.
If I kidnapped your children and pressed them into slave labor picking olives from my olive tree, I'd have increased the quality of life of my family a bit! This is ethical :)
Madness, surely? What's your reasoning? Is this American Libertarianism?
