And earns you enemies from all but a tiny fraction of people, regardless of the validity of your point.
You can always say no, politely. Or leave. Or refuse, etc.
I don’t care for the original persons point, but I also don’t care for you. To be clear.
To my mind that's quite nasty, even when it's cloaked in false, high-minded BS about free speech and the like. So am I going to be frank in return? You bet.
If you really care about people being nasty, I am sure you'll now start hectoring those nasty pro-kyriarchy types. But what I think is actually happening here is that you'll continue to only object to anti-status-quo frankness, while happily accepting pro-status-quo nastiness as long as it's got a modicum of civility glossed over it.