I feel you're missing the point. This person is saying that one should communicate first. If you perceive communication exclusively as "activism" or "apology" seeking (or cancellation?), then I understand why you might not choose that path.

But others often choose open comms before heavy action, and many contributors would support that.

And yes, "forking" is subjectively a heavier action to some ppl. It's subjective, for sure. To each their own, I guess :)

Respectfully, I'm not one who would take or support your advice to act earlier (and such is my right)