Stopped using FreeBSD on my home servers (2 RockPro64s) because it lacks big.Little support, which results in an OS that doesn't distinct between the stronger and weaker cores. Among the BSDs only NetBSD supports it but that's too far from my comfort zone. Not only that but SSL and GNUTLS speeds were terrible at the time since it didn't knew how to use the cpu extensions (greatly impacts samba performance) I've stoped using.
Meanwhile Linux is a breeze. Faster, more responsible pulling 650MB/s on AES cryptsetup benchmark. BTRFS is actually quite good and LXC replaces jails. Transfers can easily saturate my gigabit connection. Don't think I'm going back so soon.