Yes, I do realize this. I'm arguing that people's privilege is
theirs. It's not
yours to redistribute as you see fit. The situation you're describing is
reality - an inevitable consequence of human social biology.
When you belong to a minority, you navigate the world on the majority's terms. This is true everywhere but only in the US do people seem to get bent of of shape about it. The saying is "When in Rome, do as the Romans do". How would you mutilate this phrase so that it conforms to your worldview?