It's not my job to fix someone else's dysfunction. It's their job to speak in public about work.
Being uncomfortable isn't a veto.
All your criticism is just framing. It presupposes pathological work practices are actually just personal quirks. If you can't type a question in a slack with 20 members you are basically useless.
This is just word salad. Youre defining pathological work rules by the subjective mental state of fearful dysfunctionals. This is backwards and incoherent.
