and thanks for the typo note -- fixed.
nothing built, other than the carrd.co website there. i kind of wanted to put something down 'on paper' to try to develop the idea a bit more myself, maybe show it around online here and there - at least see if i'm just a monster or if other folks have the same problem, etc. and it's def helped to put the site together - it's just allowed me to take the next step - think about:
- how to contact people,
- what types of friendships/relationships/apt-family people might be interested in making/creating,
- how would we actually set up an initial meeting between future-apt-family members
- is 'family' too strong a word/idea? part of my goal is to increase solidarity generally.
- could / should these communities be able to evolve into something much more thna 'just' a family -- tenant union, buy the building/property, land/building-type trust stuff?
i thought of 'competition' (co-opetition?) that already exists, things like: - apt communities doing 'pizza days' or whatever once a month
- some communities have fakebook groups, etc.
- some folks will actually meet around the building - parking garage, street, laundry room, dog park, walking around the hood, etc.
- some folks will meet on Nextdoor
and i didn't want to fall into the 'trap' of trying to build something online -- or mostly or only online.my natural inclination for a lot of things these days seems to be 'avoid doing this venture online because it will suck -- almost by definition'. that's a bit harsh, but just my take. some of my ideas, like a kb idea, it's online-only and that's fine/good. but when i think of 'online apt community', the closest thing i can think of right now is 'nextdoor' -- which... has always felt like a racist/classist cesspool to me, whenever i checked into it. just my take. so doing yet another online community like Nextdoor, or fakebook, just has an 'ick' factor for me.
one buddy said his communities' 'pizza days' are all he has ever needed to make NEWFOREVERFRIENDS in whatever city he has ever been in, and that this MyAptFam idea is completely stupid or worse.
and then i met a kid who said, during some discussion i wasn't even involved in, "i'm NEVER moving to another city where I don't know someone again."