The greatest and latest in Windows land is WinUI 3 but none of your mentioned applications will probably ever use it because it's completely incompatible with their current user interface API.
OK, but as for "what is native" on Windows, I'd say it is still the Win32 controls because Win32 still underpins everything. Microsoft's problem is they painted themselves into a corner because Win32/GDI has inherently poor support for HiDPI and scaling.
So you shouldn't use the native controls.
It's illogical but partially explains why it's a mess.