I spend time with people in person or on the phone usually. We, gasp, _do things_ like go to restaurants or go camping. Sometimes we all sit on the sofa in a big pile and share snacks and watch movies or talk about life.
It's nice. Sometimes I'm even alone and get to read a dead tree book or just enjoy nature.
What happens "on the internet" is of very low importance, slightly below my choice of socks or what brand of snack to get.